Due to the tricky situation of sitting on the fence of two completely different dynamics, it can be hard to know how much you can say. As with any love interest, there is the pressure of remaining ‘perfect’ in their eyes. By nature, we don’t tend to mind our friends or acquaintance’s flaws. They don’t weigh heavily on our minds as we aren’t involved with them in such an intense way. On the contrary, a partner is someone you accept wholeheartedly and completely. Taking on their strengths and weaknesses.